One of the many hundreds of reasons that I love the Internets is that I get an opportunity to speak with people that I ordinarily wouldn’t have the chance to, you know, conversate with.

Tom Lafauci
For instance, when Barack Obama was speaking in Cairo, I had an extended exchange on Twitter with @tomlafauci, a former speechwriter to Joe Biden, Tom Foley and John Kerry. We had a really nice, brief back and forth for about fifteen minutes. Loved it. He’s clearly got a way with words.
Take a look at a few of Tom’s recent tweets:

@tomlafauci

@tomlafauci

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James Fallows
I’ve exchanged a few emails with James Fallows, one of my very favorite persons and journalists.
And then I’ve just popped in on people for the joy of it. I wish I could tell you that I’ve done this hundreds of times, but it’s likely just a few dozen.
It generally looks like this. I land on someone’s site, loved it, sent them an email: “I love your site, you appear to be doing great work and I’m impressed and inspired. Thanks for having such a great site. I’m going to redouble my efforts because of you.”
Takes about all of 25 seconds to write an e-mail like that. And the recipient who has no expectation that anything like this is coming, is understandably quite thrilled. And we each go on our way. Me feel good. They feel good. (I’ve been on the receiving end a few times and can attest to the joy one feels.)

Copywriting superstar Bob Bly
Meet Bob Bly – Copywriter & Generous Guy
Way back in December of 2007, I sent Bob an email thanking him for the great generosity he shows to copywriters. Hundreds of us, if not thousands of us have benefited from his work. Bob is the author of numerous books on copywriting and a force of nature in the world of copywriting. I wished him a Merry Christmas and a Happy New Year. “Thank you. You made my day,” he wrote back. Would I have snailed mail a thank you? Doubtful.
Today I found a directory for freelance copywriters that was different from the norm. This directory was owned and controlled by guess who? Bob Bly. Here’s the thing; he wasn’t letting just anyone into his directory. He made it plain it wasn’t going to be easy to get in. He wanted a track record, he wanted a client list, etc, etc. His name was involved.
Where’s All This Going?
Fast forward to today. I still had his original email, thanks to GMail. So I replied to a two year old email and said that I hoped he was still well and busy. I talked about the directory he’d just launched and how cool it was and that I would be honored to be included. I included my client list and some other information.
Ten minutes later Bob wrote back: “Impressive client list and website. You’ll be listed in the next few days.” Would I have been listed without the thank you? We’ll never know, but it sure didn’t hurt that we had a bit of a relationship to begin with.
There’s a saying that I can’t remember. It has something to do with doing something for someone before you actually need them. Someday I’m going to be able to help Bob Bly. Up till now, most of our exchange has been one way — he keeps helping me. So here I am again saying, “thank you Bob, you’re just a great, generous guy.” And you too, Tom LaFauci and James Fallows.
And you? Thank you for reading this far. Comments are welcome as is sharing. Have a Tom, Bob and James kind of day.





